Life lately

It's been awhile since I've posted, as I have been enjoying my life in a whole new way. I have been working really hard for the past couple months to improve myself, to be a better person and to be able to show up in a way that I never had been able to before. While doing this inner work, I realize that I haven't slowed down or stopped to appreciate all the progress that I've made and celebrate my accomplishments.

Now, Paola is back in my life and our future together looks brighter than ever. I've been spending a lot of time celebrating the progress that we have both have made and our accomplishments. However, I don't want to stop doing my inner work, progressing and traveling my path on this beautiful journey. Each week, we take a day that is dedicated to ourselves individually. This day is very important for both of us, as it gives us an opportunity to focus on just ourselves outside of relationship.

This last week I made a new friend who I believe will be an incredible person to have in my life. He too is on the same path, and has been for many years. We went and had dinner and chatted for hours. The similarities in our lives and in our journeys are unreal. He also happens to be I hypnotherapist and coach, among other things. Our bond was instant as we both saw each other for who we really are.

So let me fill you all in on what's been going on. Paola and I are stronger than ever, we're planning a trip to Europe in the next couple weeks, and when we return I will be moving into her place. If you would have asked me a month ago how I saw the future playing out, none of that would have been in it. She has been doing her in her work as well, and is showing up in ways that I really appreciate. She is showing vulnerability, a desire to be with me, and working toward being interdependent. The change is incredible and fills me with love and joy and an incredible outlook for our future together. I've been working really hard on being present everyday, enjoying every moment, and not worrying about the past or where the future will take us. A lifetime full of amazing moments is all I want, and I'm willing to let it happen and not try to plan it anymore. I still see my spiritual coach and my hypnotherapist, but I have got the feeling from both of them that there isn't a lot more that they can offer me. However, I'm not ready to give up yet until I feel like I am complete. Until that day I will continue to do my work, show up for my partner, and be the best version of myself I can.

Each day I stop and recognized the progress that I've made and the work that I have put into it. I do my best to celebrate this each day because if it goes without self-recognition, then I can see how I may feel like I'm not doing enough. Paola supports me in this as well, she encourages me and she has given me a lot of recognition for the work I have done. I truly feel like she is proud of me and that is a wonderful feeling.

There isn't much more to add. Life has been amazing and just gets better everyday. I love this feeling and I love this new life. There's still work that needs to be done and some tasks but still need to be finished to completely move forward, but I am well on my way and couldn't be happier.

Paola is going to start blogging as well to talk about her journey, her accomplishments, and her side of things. Together we will take our blog in new and exciting directions. I can't wait!

Life is beautiful and the possibilities are endless. Remind yourself of that everyday.